– Proverb
Meaning: A person who helps you when you are in trouble is a true friend. Hard times show who your real friends are.
- in need
- – in a difficult situation and needing help
- indeed
- – truly; really
21 English quotes
Quotes about good friends, loyalty and the people who stay with us.
– Proverb
Meaning: A person who helps you when you are in trouble is a true friend. Hard times show who your real friends are.
– Ralph Waldo Emerson, "Friendship", Essays (1841)
Meaning: If you want good friends, start by being a good friend yourself: kind, loyal and there for people.
“Your friend is the man who knows all about you, and still likes you.”
– Elbert Hubbard
Meaning: A real friend knows your faults and mistakes and likes you anyway.
– Aristotle, Reported in Diogenes Laërtius, Lives of Eminent Philosophers (3rd century AD)
Meaning: Close friends are so alike in their thoughts and feelings that they seem to share one soul.
– C. S. Lewis, The Four Loves (1960)
Meaning: Friendship often begins when two people discover they share an interest or feeling they thought was only theirs.
“Those friends thou hast, and their adoption tried, grapple them unto thy soul with hoops of steel.”
– William Shakespeare, Hamlet (c. 1600)
Meaning: When you have friends who have proved they are loyal, hold on to them as tightly as you can.
– A. A. Milne, The House at Pooh Corner (1928)
Meaning: Sometimes friendship needs no words. Just knowing your friend is there makes you feel safe.
“You have been my friend. That in itself is a tremendous thing.”
– E. B. White, Charlotte's Web (1952)
Meaning: Charlotte the spider helped Wilbur the pig simply because he was her friend. Friendship itself is a great gift that needs no other reason.
“I can't carry it for you, but I can carry you and it as well.”
– J. R. R. Tolkien, The Return of the King (1955)
Meaning: Sam cannot carry Frodo's burden for him, but he can carry Frodo himself. A friend can't always solve your problem, but can help you through it.
– George Washington, Letter to Bushrod Washington (1783)
Meaning: Real friendship takes time to grow. Only when it survives hard times together does it deserve to be called friendship.
– Francis Bacon, "Of Friendship", Essays (1625)
Meaning: Sharing your life with a friend has two opposite effects: good news feels twice as good, and sad news hurts half as much.
“It is not so much our friends' help that helps us, as the confidence of their help.”
– Epicurus, Vatican Sayings (3rd century BC)
Meaning: What comforts us most is not the actual help friends give, but knowing that they would help if we needed it.
– Samuel Taylor Coleridge, "Youth and Age" (1832)
Meaning: A good friend protects you, like a tree that keeps off the rain and sun.
“And let there be no purpose in friendship save the deepening of the spirit.”
– Kahlil Gibran, The Prophet (1923)
Meaning: Don't make friends to get something from them. The only goal of friendship should be to help each other grow as people.
– Anaïs Nin, The Diary of Anaïs Nin (1937)
Meaning: Every friend brings out a different side of us, one that might never have existed without them.
“In the end, we will remember not the words of our enemies, but the silence of our friends.”
– Often attributed to Martin Luther King Jr.
Meaning: Attacks from enemies are expected. What really hurts is when friends stay quiet instead of standing up for us.
– Ralph Waldo Emerson, "Friendship", Essays (1841)
Meaning: A true friend is one of the finest things the world can produce.
“Without friends no one would choose to live, though he had all other goods.”
– Aristotle, Nicomachean Ethics (c. 340 BC)
Meaning: Even if you had money, health and everything else, life would not be worth living without friends.
– Often attributed to Muhammad Ali
Meaning: Friendship can't be taught in a classroom, but it is one of the most important lessons in life.
– Often attributed to Oprah Winfrey
Meaning: Many people want to be near you when you are successful. A true friend stays with you when things go wrong.
– Clarence Odbody, It's a Wonderful Life (1946)
Meaning: Having good friends is a kind of success that matters more than money or career.